Four myths about why people get addicted

Addiction is a complicated affliction. In the last five decades, researchers have made a lot of progress in understanding addiction. They have sought, with some success, to discover how and why people become addicted by observing the real world. Earlier notions of addiction, seemingly based on presupposition and wild guessing with a heaping dose of moralizing remain widespread. We now know, among other things, that some people have genetic conditions that probably increase their risk of becoming addicted. Clinical workers dedicated to helping people overcome addiction and researchers have noticed that shame is not helping. The modern understanding of addiction replaces condemnation with compassion. That does not mean enabling; it just means we can help more when we refrain from judging. Let’s look at four myths about why people get addicted and straighten out those misconceptions.

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Not just for shady characters with Fedoras

Myth: Addiction Is Just A Moral Failing

Some people think all addicts are just irresponsible hedonists who don’t care about anything except for having a good time. That is simply not so. Certainly, there are some irresponsible hedonists who become addicted, but that does not mean that all addicts are irresponsible hedonists. Some people wind up addicted as a result of desperately trying to self-medicate to deal with horrific trauma, for instance. That is clearly not a simple case of irresponsible pleasure-seeking. People with strong morals can become addicted too.

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It’s a matter of luck whether you can drink & avoid addiction or not

Myth: Addiction Is A Choice

People voluntarily put themselves at risk of addiction when they choose to use any addictive substance, regardless of whether that substance is widely socially accepted, like alcohol, or generally frowned on, like meth. But the majority of people who use addictive substances do so without becoming addicted. Somewhere out there, there is someone who deliberately set out to become addicted and succeeded. But the vast majority of addicts are people who thought they could use a substance without becoming addicted.

Some of them have not figured out they were wrong; they are in denial. (Read about how to talk to someone you think may have a problem with addiction here.) Some of them have realized they have a problem but they have not yet decided to seek help. (Read about how to convince someone to go to rehab.) And others are in rehab practicing for life in recovery or out on their own (with the support of their group) carefully doing the daily work to stay on the road of recovery.   

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Be strong? THere is a lot more to it than that.

Myth: Addiction Is Just A Lack of Willpower

Well.. sort of. When people use an addictive substance, it gradually changes the physical functioning of the brain. Normal reward cycles are interrupted. The substance gradually becomes the only way that the addict can feel good. It might be more accurate to say addiction causes lack of willpower than to say that lack of willpower causes addiction. Some people with very little impulse control can use addictive substances without becoming addicted. Lack of willpower may put a person more at risk for addiction, but it is not the principal factor. Other factors are more important. For instance, sorry fellas, but men are around 50% more likely to struggle with addiction. 

Myth: Addiction Is An Untreatable Disease

Some people say that addiction is incurable. This is a potentially useful perspective. When we say addiction is incurable, we are asserting that once addicted, an addict must prepare to manage their condition for the rest of their life. We could think of addiction as incurable in the sense that the person will always be more at risk of falling into addiction than someone who is not an addict. And knowing this, we can advise the person to take precautions and learn special tools and skills for staying clean and sober. But whether or not you choose to say that addiction is “incurable” or not, addiction is certainly treatable.

Addiction changes the brain, but these changes are reversible. Therapy, exercise, mediation, and other approaches make addiction much more manageable. Millions of addicts get clean, stay clean, and leave happy and productive lives. For most addicts, a good treatment plan designed by experienced compassionate professionals is essential for success in recovery.

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There is hope. You can get clean.

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Seasons Bali offers support for people struggling with all types of addiction. You are here reading this, so it is probably time for you or someone you care about to take the first step towards a much better life. It takes work but you can leave the unfulfilling cycle and the suffering behind.

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